Marriage Counseling Can Help Couples A Lot

The first thing we need to understand is that every relationship has its challenges, be it marriage or any other relationship. Obligations and expectations change in everyday life and so does your relationship with your partner. In addition, people can grow in different directions and at different speeds without stopping. These five steps from intensive Christian marriage counseling can help you get back on track to save your marriage.

1. Communication. Perhaps the main reason couples become dysfunctional is because they stop interacting. It's important for you and your partner to talk about what's going on and how you're feeling every day. Make these days fun and talk about your personal relationships, not your kids or work.  Marriage counseling also recommends taking time to do positive things in your relationship and avoid negative, emotional outbursts. Instead, schedule another time to discuss these issues.

2. Log in physically. It's no secret that sexual interest, intimacy and interest seem to disappear in the first year of marriage. Both men and women think differently about sex, and this "lack of sex" is a huge problem. Women may feel that they are no longer attractive to their partners. If a man does not want to have sex, he may feel inferior to his partner. At Christian Marriage Counseling, we've been through tough times and understand that falling in love can be difficult. Don't think too much about sex, just do it. A quick trip to the bathroom can affect your marriage and sex life. Lack of sex can be fatal to your marriage and it is your decision to stick with it. Finally, remember that sex should be a fun and easy part of your marriage.

3. They complement each other. During marriage counseling, couples often talk about negative things and worry or cry about every little detail. These minor complaints may actually indicate bigger problems, but being negative is not good. If you try to ignore or say something negative, find a fun alternative. You might be surprised how far a high-quality compliment can go, especially for couples who have been through something difficult. 

Paying attention to the number of negative things you say to each other throughout the day can help you and your partner notice areas that need attention.